Matrimonial & Relationship Investigators
Matrimonial and relationship investigations cover all areas from infidelity to family issues. Speak to one of our investigators to see how we can help.
Infidelity issues to family problems.
Matrimonial and Relationship Investigators are required to achieve results but their skill is also having a level of sensitivity and understanding in what are often delicate circumstances. Being able to understand human nature to get to the bottom of a situation.
Choose the right Private Investigators to help you through, to reach the truth, to help resolve the problem.
Private Investigators with a proven track record, reading our Trust Pilot Reviews, talking to one of our team, will give you the confidence and knowledge to tackle most situations.
Insight’s Private Investigators have over 30 years of experience, helping individuals and families.
Our award winning team of male and female private investigators will discuss your case with you in absolute confidence.
Is your partner being unfaithful to you?
In matrimonial and relationship investigations, one of the most frequently asked questions of a private investigator is “can you find out if my girlfriend/wife/ boyfriend/husband/partner is being unfaithful?”
Many people in long-term and settled relationships can find themselves in circumstances where they feel, for whatever reason, that their partner may not be completely honest.
Probably the worst part of this situation is simply not knowing, and that’s where we can help. Cases we are asked to investigate can result in a report for the client which says that their partner is entirely faithful. In some cases, we’ve found that their behaviour change is because they are planning a surprise for their partner, or are under some other kind of stress.
Unfortunately, this is not always the case.
It is only by discovering the truth of a situation that you are able to be in a position to make an informed decision
With 30 years’ experience, Insight Investigations understand that contacting an investigator can be daunting but whatever your circumstances we usually can assist in getting to the truth. If you need an investigator for relationship or matrimonial matters then we can help.
There are very few situations that we haven’t seen before, meaning we can support you through what is an emotional time.
Couples in long term settled relationships can, from time to time, become suspicious of their spouses actions or attitude which can impact upon other areas of their life. At Insight our highly experienced award winning team are happy to talk your fears through with you and draw up a plan of action to provide you with the information you need. Initial telephone conversations are free of charge.
There is no ‘magic wand’ unfortunately and individual problems require individual remedies. Our discreet experienced case managers can advise you on your particular circumstances and the best way forward.
So what should you do if you think your partner is being unfaithful?
The first step is to contact us and tell us your concerns. We will listen to you and advise you what you may be able to to do next. Calls are free from a landline and also from a mobile and we will give you a free assessment of how we can help and how much it will cost.
Why do you think your partner is committing infidelity?
Many people call us when they simply have a ‘feeling’ or ‘gut instinct’ that their partner is being unfaithful. This can range from marital infidelity to a girlfriend or boyfriend seeing another person but whatever the circumstances it can be emotionally damaging. Often there are a number of tell tale signs which at first are ignored, but as time goes on they accumulate and raise suspicions.
We covered the most frequently visible signs when a partner is being unfaithful in a previous article, but if you haven’t read this then here are the key things you may want to look for.
Your partner seems to lose interest in you and your relationship
Now this in itself isn’t a sure sign that they are being unfaithful, after all, we know that as relationships develop people start to take their partner for granted and can sometimes simply be focusing their attention elsewhere. It’s all too easy to have your head turned by a simple bit of flattery. It can, however, be a first sign that all is not well when they don’t want to spend time with you or even talk to you and are preoccupied with something or someone else.
This often manifests itself in them becoming angry towards you for no apparent reason and aiming cruel comments at you for no particular reason. Sometimes this can lead to emotional and physical abuse and more often than not this is simply a coping mechanism as they know that they are in the wrong but are looking to deflect blame elsewhere. A reaction from you to their behaviour could help them justify why they don’t want to be with you any more.
Changes in routine
Often a give-away sign, this is one of the most obvious signs. Your partner suddenly seems to have to stay late at work more often, or they need to go out more than they used to. Excuses can range from needing to get fresh air, going to the gym more frequently or taking up a hobby that requires them to be out for considerable periods of time.
A partner suddenly taking more pride in their appearance, or showering and wearing fragrance more frequently can be an indicator that something is wrong. Typically this will manifest itself in a change in grooming habits, a sudden change in their wardrobe, fashion and appearance and possibly a drive to improve their personal fitness. Any or all of these can be a sign.
The onset of social media, easy to set up email accounts and mobile phones, now gives endless opportunity. A sure sign of an unfaithful partner is passwords being changed, mobile phones being hidden or even access protected and internet history being deleted, 2nd devices such as tablets, can now be commonplace in the household with each member having their own specific device, allowing for secrecy.
The most frequent and obvious of these changes is the way people react to members of the opposite sex however it can sometimes be the way they behave towards members of the same sex. Typically partners will become more flirtatious with other people and their attitude changes so they would appear, to someone who has never met them before, as if they are single.
Clearly some or all of these behavioural changes may be nothing more than your partner taking an interest in their own appearance and looking to improve their lives with you, rather than without you, however when two or more of these signs are present it can often be that they are attracted to someone other than you. Catching your partner being unfaithful, is often quite difficult, particularly if you have a family as finding the time or resources to follow them without being seen is almost impossible.
At Insight, we have over 30 years’ experience in handling matrimonial investigations and understand completely not only how distressing this can be, but also how we need to handle this sensitive situation. We have both male and female investigators who are highly experienced in matrimonial investigations and can help assist in discovering the truth.
Of course, not all the signs explained here are positive signs of an unfaithful partner, they could indicate other traits brought about by pressure from work, financial problems or a multitude of possible causes. Insight Investigations will investigate the matter for you discreetly and provide you with whatever the truth is and the evidence you need to make an informed decision.
So if you want to find out for sure whether your partner is being unfaithful then simply contact us today on the number below or via our contact us page and let us help you.